Seducing women can seem very easy and fun. But the truth is: if you don’t know what you’re doing, it can be a very difficult and frustrating experience. The reason is that women face many danger and challenge in the world, they are very careful and extreme. I’ve heard it over and over: “I will never do such a dangerous thing!” Yet, what most guys don’t realize is it’s very dangerous to get involved with a woman who is too extreme and headstrong.
I’m sure you know what I mean. There are very few guys around who would succeed in dating and bringing a shy girl to bed, even if she is a total mystery to them.There is one thing that you have to consider and I’m going to present it to you now: you have to be very careful with the way you are approaching her.
The reason for this is the existence of this horrible myth: “All women are the same.” It’s like that old stupid misconception… “If you can’t beat them, join them.” You have to know that there are very few options to choose from when you are asking a girl to bed, if you are using the classic ‘dinner and a movie’ pattern.
You very often hear a girl saying: “I want to go to a very quiet place tonight, I have something very important to do…”. It’s a very bad sign if you think about it. After all, it means she wants to be alone with a unavailable guy. There is another one that sound very similar: “Don’t you hate it when you are staring at a girl’s ass?” Again, sounds very similar to the ‘let’s just be friends’ syndrome.
And let me remind you: if a girl is willing to show you her asshole, she is not coming back for dinner, probably.Women, love being respected. The ones I respect are the ones that I cherish. That’s why you should choose a girl who will respect you, the same way you do her with a sexy girl. So, how to seduce women? Just learn how not to disrespect a girl’s privacy.
Never invite her to your place
Dating places are designed to make you alone with a girl. She knows where you live, she knows what you do, she knows how you feel about a relationship with a guy. If you invite her to your apartment, your place will be just another room in your house. To really to seduce her, you have to match interesting Level.
Example: Say: “Let’s go to my place.” “What do you think?” “I would like to bring a friend.” “Bring a friend?” “Yeah, I’m bringing my dad (or my brother).” “See, we have the same interest level.” Now you are in a comfortable conversation with a girl. You just repeated something she has told you several times before. There is a nice potential for you to get lucky three months from now.
Here is another example: “Let’s go get some sushi next week.” “Do you like Japan?” “Yeah, I like Japan.” “Where’s a good place to go? My mom makes some good sushi.” “No, no, no. I’m going to my place next week.” “Cool, let’s go get some sushi next week.”See how this works? You repeated something she likes and have potential for her to reciprocate.
Try to learn what she told you and repeat it back to her. What her reply was and how she answered, and how she answered it will help you to repeat it back to her.Another thing when repeating women’s stories is to make them as vivid as possible. The less possible the details the less connection she feels, therefore the more of this you repeat until the point it becomes a habit.